How do you solve problems with couples?

Problem-solving strategies:

  1. Be consistent.
  2. Be on time.
  3. Do what you say you will do.
  4. Don’t lie — not even little white lies to your partner or to others.
  5. Be fair, even in an argument.
  6. Be sensitive to the other’s feelings.
  7. Call when you say you will.
  8. Call to say you’ll be home late.

How do I do couples Counselling at home?

Couples therapy exercises and activities

  1. Get crafty.
  2. Find deeper topics to engage with.
  3. Express appreciation.
  4. Identify your partner’s love language.
  5. Schedule important conversations.
  6. Pencil in one-on-one time.
  7. Fill your intimacy bucket.
  8. Practice partner yoga.

How can couples communicate better?

Tips for better communication

  1. Process your feelings first.
  2. Thinking about timing.
  3. Start with ‘I’ statements and feelings.
  4. Focus on being both being heard and listening.
  5. Make compromising and resolution the goal.
  6. Set clear boundaries.
  7. Leave notes for your partner.
  8. Regularly check-in throughout the day.

How do you rebuild trust in a relationship?

Rebuilding Trust

  1. Decide to forgive or to be forgiven. Make a conscious decision to love by trying to let go of the past.
  2. Be open to self-growth and improvement. You can’t repair broken trust with just promises and statements of forgiveness.
  3. Be aware of your innermost feelings and share your thoughts.
  4. Want it to work.

What kills a relationship fast?

1. Blame and shame. Aside from all-out abusive behavior, blaming and shaming may be the fastest way to kill your connection. Both behaviors communicate contempt for your partner, displaying that you view him or her as beneath you or deserving of scorn.

What are the three C’s in a healthy relationship?

Difficult Relationships and the Three C’s that Fix Them

  • Communicate. Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship, especially a romantic relationship.
  • Compromise. This suggestion, in some ways, relates to the last.
  • Commit.